Chaco Canyon always inspires me to look deeper into myself. So do wakeup calls. And we never know when our next wakeup call will be. My family's latest was just this month. That's when my Dad nearly drowned.
Dad and his race committee partner were a couple of miles out to sea on their patrol boat picking up racing buoys after a sailing race was cancelled due to bad weather. Seas were lumpy at 3 to 4 feet. Ocean temperature was icy cold at less than 50 degrees Fahrenheit. Definitely not swimming weather.
When the engine would not start, seawater came in over the stern in the heavy seas. The bilge pump stopped draining the water as it should, and water collected in the transom.
Next thing he and his partner knew, the boat capsized and turned completely upside down without warning, and they were thrown into the icy water. Dad went straight down -- he was in the water so quickly he had no time to pull the cord to inflate his life vest (note: bad llfe vest design for situations like this; get positive flotation vest). With no idea which way was up, he was afraid he might even end up under the upside down boat, unable to get to the surface. He still has nightmares about trying to get to the surface.
His partner's vest had inflated automatically upon hitting the water - different design, very expensive. He stayed at the surface.
How long can you last in 50 degree water? I don't know, but it isn't long when you are also struggling against heavy seas, rapidly losing energy, and are 84 years old.
They are convinced they are alive today only because their sister patrol boat was close by to rescue them immediately. And it was only close because Dad had called them to come pull them away from the rocks when they had engine trouble. Thank goodness.
I had arrived home for a week-long visit only 2 hours after he made it to shore that day. Boy, was I happy to see him. I was reminded of my deep appreciation for the simplest pleasures, and for every minute I get to simply be with my family and loved ones.
What else can I say? Just this: Happy Father's Day, Dad -- I'm happy that you made it home that night so I could tell you how much I love you. And I am thankful for every minute we get to share.
Next time we need a wakeup call, though, how about skipping the cold water swim?
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